| There is many things I,avoid because my life | | | | instrument. It's the musician's fault, and they must |
| experiences guide me in other directions. To name a | | | | take the response-ability in order to make the |
| few, people who smoke, drink excessively, | | | | correction. For many years I, thought that I, could |
| unchecked drug intake, and the ones that refuse to | | | | help others see what I, see with a different |
| take 100% response-ability for their current life | | | | perspective in order to help them believe that their is |
| tribulations. I, myself like many others have been | | | | hope, and they can move on. With many encounters |
| down some nasty roads that have left me | | | | in my life I, have learned this: If the other person will |
| abandoned, with no hope of a "normal" life. Am | | | | not accept response-ability for their present |
| I,healed,I doubt it, but I, do not bath in self pity. I, | | | | condition, they are refusing to heal themselves. Which |
| believe that kind of behavior zaps our internal well | | | | puts them in a manipulative state of mind, and |
| being. I, would never admit to having all the correct | | | | unchecked they tend blame others constantly. |
| answers to everyone else's maladies. In order to | | | | Anyways I, thank you for being the coach, and |
| understand myself I, look at a given situation perhaps | | | | providing a platform for sounding off. Do You have |
| with a no nonsense approach. Once I, have collected | | | | some trash you want to get rid of ? Want some one |
| my garbage I take it out to the bin, and toss it in. I, | | | | to listen, who has no agenda to judge you. Who on a |
| do not climb in the bin with the trash, and continue to | | | | regular bases share his own life crossroads, and many |
| play with it. White & Black, is there a gray area, and | | | | others do the same. Venting in such a environment |
| if there is, what purpose does it serve ? An example | | | | allows you to grow, and understand we are all a lot |
| of what I, mean is if a musician is playing a solo piece | | | | alike in many ways. Helps you regain focus, and |
| and he, or she is off key it doesn't sound right. So no | | | | brings balance back into your life. Go ahead, and |
| matter what excuse is claimed for the incorrect note, | | | | meet me on the call it is 100% free of charge. But, |
| it sounds wrong. So does the musician blame the | | | | bring courage this encounter will build your inner |
| audience, no, he or she is in command of the | | | | strength. |